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Gut Punch
I’ve never understood the use of fluorescent lights in hospitals and other medical offices. I assume it’s a cost-effective way to light large spaces. The glare created keeps everyone a little off center. Maybe, in that way, they serve two purposes. Patients and their loved ones feel a little disarmed, unsure of reality, when receiving bad news. They’ve wheeled my mostly still unconscious girlfriend back from her procedure. She rouses now when the doctor comes in. “I don’t hav

Trina Kay
May 22, 20252 min read


Aperture or something like it.
Aperture refers to the opening in a camera lens through which light passes to enter the camera. It's like the pupil of your eye—the...

Trina Kay
May 16, 20251 min read


Captured (Kind Of): The Chaos of Moving Subjects and the Calm of Sourdough
I'm taking a photography class this summer. Actually, I'm taking two. One each semester. 9 classes stand between me and graduation this...

Trina Kay
May 10, 20252 min read


Sourdough Era
Sylvie the Sourdough Our neighbor gifted us a sourdough starter. This is the second one I’ve had. The first another casualty of a messy...

Trina Kay
May 7, 20251 min read
Life, Business, and the Chaos Hurricane
It’s been a while since I’ve written here, and let me tell you—it’s not because I’ve been sitting around with extra time on my hands....

Trina Kay
Mar 12, 20252 min read
Blue Shoes
It was never about the shoes. Not really. In my gut, I saw the red flag Because, we were discussing MY shoes. The ones I would wear. On my feet. On my wedding day. “Blue isn’t one of our wedding colors”, he’d say. And I would rebuff that with the ‘something old , something new, something borrowed, something blue’. “You made that up”, he replies. You can’t be serious. This isn’t even your first wedding. How have you never heard of this?? In my head I am screaming that I cannot

Trina Kay
Feb 22, 20251 min read
The best advice I ever heard...
To be honest, I used to be terrible at taking advice. Asking for advice is admitting that you don't know it all. That maybe (gasp)...

Trina Kay
Jan 26, 20251 min read
Just Start.
Then start again. If I could give one piece of advice to anyone nervous about starting a new project, business, hobby, etc. Just start....

Trina Kay
Jan 17, 20251 min read
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