Embracing Clichés: The Beauty of Fences and Happy Endings
- Trina Kay

- Jun 26, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: 7 hours ago

There’s a line about fences in a Miranda Lambert song: "Yeah, I could love a picket fence if it wrapped around the world."

I think about it often. This whole town is wrapped in white fences. Some fences stretch as far as the eye can see.
Fences That Lead Us Home

Others lead the way home. These fences are markers of safety and comfort. They represent the desire to belong somewhere special.
The Cliché of a Happy Life

Mostly, I think of how these fences have become a cliché for a happy life and marriage. Once upon a time, all anyone ever wanted was a white fence and someone to come home to. It's so cliché that many people resist it, seeing the notion as something trivial.
Questioning the Cliché
And maybe that’s true. But does that mean we should dismiss it entirely? In my eyes, there’s beauty in clichés. They symbolize aspirations and dreams that many share. They represent the warmth of home and the love that fills it.
Choosing Happiness
I'll take the fences and the happily ever after. I'm happy to be living a cliché. The notion is relatable and comforting. It's a reflection of what many of us desire deep down—a place where love thrives and families grow.

More Than Just Barriers
Not all fences are meant to keep you in. Some of them are just meant to guide the way. They provide structure and perspective. They can help us navigate the complexities of life while keeping us grounded.
Finding Your Path
If you’re feeling lost, take a moment to reflect on the fences in your life. Are they guiding you towards your goals? Are they helping you create the happiness you seek? Or perhaps, they are obstacles that are standing in your way. Regardless, they play a critical role in your journey.
The Strength of Community
These fences can also symbolize community. When you think of white picket fences, you often think of neighborhoods filled with loving families. Each fence represents belonging, unity, and connections between neighbors. Building relationships can be a source of joy and support.
Celebrating the Journey
Life is filled with choices, challenges, and beautiful moments. Embracing the clichés can help you appreciate the journey. Whether you install a white picket fence or simply dream of one, savor the warmth of your dreams.
Conclusion: Live Your Truth
In the end, living life authentically is what matters. If a picket fence represents happiness for you, then chase that dream. If it means something else, that’s perfectly okay too. The most vital lesson is to embrace what brings you joy, no matter how cliché it might seem.
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Your pursuit of happiness matters. Celebrate the simple things, and don't shy away from the comforting clichés. They may lead you home, just like a well-placed fence does.
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Let your dreams guide you. After all, we all deserve our own version of a happy ending.



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