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Letters from Trina
I occasionally send essays, reflections, and updates about writing, books, and the work behind the words. If you'd like to receive new writing directly in your inbox– you're welcome here.


About Me
Hi, I’m Trina Kay.
I’m a writer, storyteller, coffee lover, and firm believer that life can still turn out beautiful — even after it completely falls apart.
For years, I lived in survival mode. Raising babies, rebuilding myself, learning hard lessons, and trying to figure out who I was underneath all the titles, expectations, and pain. Somewhere along the way, I found healing in writing, comfort in honest conversations, and strength in starting over.
Now, I share pieces of that journey here.
Not because I want to stay stuck in the hard chapters, but because I know what it feels like to need proof that happiness still exists on the other side of them.
This space is filled with real life. The beautiful, messy, ordinary kind. Books and blogging. Coffee and conversations. Healing and humor. Motherhood, love, second chances, and becoming the person you were always meant to be.
These days, my life feels softer. More intentional. More honest. And if there’s one thing I hope people take away from my writing, it’s this:
You are allowed to rebuild your life.
You are allowed to choose joy.
And it’s never too late to become yourself.
Welcome to my little corner of the internet.
I’m really glad you’re here.


Rituals
Writing — and healing — both require rhythm. My days begin with movement and quiet preparation before the world gets loud, creating space for clarity and focus. Coffee comes later, intentionally, during writing, journaling, and slower weekend mornings. These rituals aren’t about productivity or perfection — they are simply the routines that help me return to myself and show up consistently as a writer and human.
Coffee
Coffee marks the slower moments of my day– writing, reflection and intentional pauses that make space for creativity.
Wellness & Beauty
The routines and practices that help me feel grounded, clear and able to show up fully in both life and writing.
Writing Tools
The notebooks, planners, pens and everyday tools that support my writing practice and creative process.
What I'm Reading
Books that challenge me, inspire me, and remind why stories matter.